Soulmate (RESEARCH ESSAY PROJECT)

You can just google "soulmate meaning" and there you will get a pretty accurate meaning of it, y'know, it's google. So, I don't really know why should we write 'bout our soulmate, or what we think it's a soulmate. But meh, let's try it.

I think that a soulmate is a vain noun, it's like perfection or utopia. A soulmate is a person IDEALLY suited bla bla, the term ideally means that this person is the one, not just like another one. Sorry if I'm being negative, well, I'm really not really sorry, it can't exist anyone who is the one, or at least that kind of one, not a one whom is perfect in everything and perfectly matches you, it would be kinda weird. 

Didn't you have that day were you're on fire and everything works how it should, didn't you feel like it can't be happening, surprise! it isn't happening, just thinking that the possibility that it could not be real,  stains the perfect day.

Same happens when we talk about soulmates, the idea of that everything works fine in a relationship (no matter what kind of relationship is) is just hilarious, all have their ups and downs. It's impossible that they matches you perfectly.

Ah, and when I'm talking about matches I mean what you need or what you want of a this person, it would be funny if a christian and a sadomasochist wants the same soulmate. But hey, everyone have their own affinity, so maybe it can happen, not really.

All this soliloquy summarized is that soulmates only exist in your mind or in that shitty stories of perfect love.

Graduation, now what? (Probably wait our deaths)

I re-watched the video and, omg, it is so wrong. She talks of nothing and didn't really arrive to a solid conclusion.
She spend the first 2-3 minutes talking about her job. "I worked in bla bla bla. I can predict your future and also know your salary. I'm a magician!" She isn't really a magician, she know your salary depending of your grit, she is a "gritician".
Like out favorite "gritician" said, we could know the future of someone depending of their grit, the only problem here is pretty obvious, how we increase our grit? She don't know, and it's like, OK.
After this, she said that an study of someone in somewhere tells that if we  want our kids griter, we should make the studies more harder, and make them fail, and fail, over and over. So... WTF. We already fail, don't you think? Should we fail more? Really?
Did you really think this is a viable solution? I don't think so.
To make our children (not really "our" cuz I didn't have any son or daughter) griter, we should make them aware about the future, because it is important, and most of the teenagers really give a fuck about their future, they see the "future" too distant to think that they are ruining it.
Or at least it's my vision.